Too Late For
Flowers
Never Too Late For Tears
By Roy L. Sturgill
As I study and try in my uneducated way to
search out the genealogy of my forefathers, I try to
picture in my mind
the way they lived, how , and if their lives were
influenced by the hard
times they endured; and most of all I find myself
wishing that I could
have been with them, in their endeavor to wrest from
the earth an existence,
and an independence beyond reproach. Earlier in life,
and seeing it through
the eyes of an inquisitive boy. I was made to wonder
why my elders settled
in mountainous northwestern North Carolina, Southwest
Virginia, and Eastern
Kentucky. Now as the sands of time have flowed
constantly onward,
causing me to be older and perhaps a little
wiser. I can understand their nomadic travels.
Since most were small-time farmers, they
were forever on the lookout for an abundance of wood
and water. Numerous
streams criss-crossed the land, and there were many
trees for building
homes. A casual observer might have thought that no
farm land was to be
found in this rocky hill country, but in the valleys
and flats along the creeks and rivers, there
was much fertile soil, and settlers went about
clearing the brush and fencing
their fields with the rocks strewn about or with split
rails from the bountiful
supply of trees. They had brought seeds with which to
plant their crops,
but only the barest necessities in the way of food to
last until the first
harvest. It was fortunate that fish abounded in the
creeks, waterfowl came
in the fall, and the woods were full of small game and
birds. Black walnut
trees grew along the creek banks and their nuts were
gathered in autumn.
There were wild plum trees, wild grapes, blackberries,
and other wild fruits.
Corn was the main crop. It was a staple food
for man, beast and fowl. As the garden was the
housewife's domain, she
saw to it that some land was left for that purpose.
Some families brought
small apple, pear, and peach trees, and these were set
out. Almost everyone
had a patch of cane for making molasses.
The setting of a new area always necessitated
the building of homes. This required the cutting of
trees for the erecting
of log cabins. The timber was prepared by hewing both
sides of the logs
to flatten them. The ends were notched to form a
locking joint at the corners.
Once the logs were ready to lay up, there was a
"house-raising." That is,
the people would band together and most of the time
the house would be
ready for occupancy in a day. The cracks between the
logs were chinked
with small blocks of wood set at an angle and covered
with clay. At one
end there was always the large fireplace built from
native stone and cemented
with clay mixed with dry grass or straw to prevent
crumbling. These chimneys
would stand throughout the years; and in some cases,
long afer the house
had fallen or was torn down.
Furniture was the least worry of all. The
bedsteads had only one leg. A large square stick was
hewed, and a hole
was bored in it and in the log of the house. A pole
was put in for a side
rail, and one was used for the back. Ropes were
criss-crossed, or if the
rope was not available, boards were nailed on for a
top. If
there were no nails, small wooden pegs were
substituted. For closet space to accommodate the few
dishes and utensils
as well as clothing and bed clothes, holes were bored
in the logs of th
house, wooden pins put in them, a board laid on that
and another above
that, and so on, until they had all the shelves
needed. Stools were made
by sawing two or three inches from the end of a big
log, boring three or
four holes in one side, and driving in round pegs for
the legs. This was
the principal part of the furniture. Before the day of
the cook stove,
all the cooking was done on the hearth of the
fireplace over hot coals,
in large dutch ovens or "bakers" (as they were
called). Our elders made
all their own clothes. They had to card, weave, and
spin every inch of
cloth. They made their own shoes, quilted their own
quilts, and weaved
their blankets. Everything was sewn by hand. Dyes were
made from bark and
leaves of the oak. Walnut made a pretty
dark brown. Broomsedge made a light yellow.
Moss and other things were used for coloring.
If you think most of our forebearers' time
was spent in getting and preparing food, you would be
right. After the
hardships of the first year, think of the good eating
these foods provided.
There was fresh pork from hog (fattened on acorns),
chinquapins and corns.
There were eggs and chickens, milk and butter from
"Old Bossy."
I wish I could once again open the door of
one of those spring houses, so common in those days,
and capture the tantalizing
fragrance of fresh churned butter, crocks of sweet
cream, and milk.
They were built near a spring where the stream could
run through them.
A race, built of whatever material was available, a
foot or two wide on
the floor, accomodated ample space for anything that
needed to be kept
cool. I'd love to hear, again, the sound of the little
stream as it trickled
around the crocks and pans in the race. There was
always a cup handy for
a cool, refreshing drink. The one I remember best, was
a long-necked gourd
with a leather throng for hanging on a nail near the
spring.
Money was always in short supply, as it was
not really needed. Almost anything could be exchanged
at the store for
a little coffee, salt, sugar, kerosene, and tobacco.
Chickens, butter,
corn, beeswax, feathers, animal pelts, and many other
items were taken
in exchange for these necessities. Trips to the store
were
made about once a month. Should one of these
commodities play out, the woman of the house learned
to make do until it
was convenient to go again. I would like to go back
some thirty or forty
years and visit an old country store. One could never
forget the smell
of kerosene, coffee, spices, and new leather for
mending shoes. All smells
comingled to create a smell like nothing else in the
world.
Early wintertime was the time for fresh pork,
turnips and greens, sweet and irish potatoes, hominy,
jams, jellies, and
honey. Eggs were usually plentiful, as were milk and
butter. The housewife
prided herself on the good tables she set. As
wintertime wore on, however,
the green vegetables played out. The fresh
pork became salt pork, the cow's flow of
milk became scanty, and the hens stopped laying.
Everybody's menu became
limited to a steady diet of dried beans, salt pork,
cornpone, and molasses
or similar foods. Long before spring, a deep hunger
for something green
began to be felt.
The first warm day found the lady of the
house outdoors in search of "garden sass" sometimes
called "sallet." One
of the earliest edible greens to appear was a plant
called "lamb's quarter"
(for what reason I cannot say). It was a bland, almost
tasteless, wild
plant. Since it was green and non-poisonous, the
housewife cooked several
messes of it seasoned with bacon grease. Cress or
creases grew in old fields
and came out early, too. Its tongue tingling spiciness
added greatly to
the menu, when it could be obtained. The most
sought-after and most abundant
green was the lowly pokeweed or "poke sallet" as it
was called. This plant
is a relative of our garden spinach. It grew in
abundance behind barns,
in old lots, and in fence corners. The mature plant
and the root of the
pokeweed are said to be poisonous. Only the new, green
shoots were gathered
for food. These were parboiled in a large quantity of
water, drained, and
seasoned with bacon grease. This was served with crisp
bacon, boiled eggs,
if available, green onions, and cornpone.
In some households, there was a superstition
that poke should be eaten three days in a row as a
spring tonic. There
were some who did not care for it, however, they
dutifully ate it rather
than face the alternative
of taking a dose of sulphur and molasses,
to ward off the spring miseries.
One would think, no doubt, that our forefathers
had a hard time, and I reckon they did, but they
enjoyed life. There was
happiness, and people loved each other. If a neighbor
fell ill, they thought
nothing of walking eight or ten miles to "set up" with
the sick and administer
to their wants. During the long hours, a coal oil lamp
burned, and at least
two people sat by the bedside, bathing down the fever
and giving medicine...which
no doubt was calomel, widely used at that period. This
was followed by
a big dose of castor oil. The patient either died or
recovered. If the
latter, the patient would be fed chicken soup for
about two weeks until
strength was regained. Neighbors pitched in and did
all the work for the
one who was ill. They brought in food that was already
cooked. If the patient
died, friends and neighbors came in and "laid out" the
corpse, dressed,
and prepared it for burial. Three or four of the men
got together and constructed
a coffin. The necessary components could be bought at
the country store.
The cost was as follows: $1.25 for one set of coffin
handles, $.50 for
one set of coffin hinges; $.50 for tacks and screws;
$.03 for sand paper;
$.50 for five yards of lining; $.50 for five yards of
black damask; and
$.10 for one cotton bat. (These prices are from an old
country store ledger
in the possession of the writer, dated 1884). Once the
coffin was finished
and the body placed therein, it was kept about two
nights, and neighbors
would come from far and near to the "wake" and thought
nothing of "setting
up" the entire two nights with their dead. Almost
everyone brought food
for their distressed neighbors. The grave was dug by
the menfolk, the dirt
shoveled on their departed friend, and they would drop
a tear at the passing
of one out of their midst.
Yes, I would like to go back in time to the
country store where the air was soft and pure, where
everyone went to the
meetin', the women in their homemade bonnets and long
dresses, the men
in their Sunday best, which was pants and a shirt made
from hand woven
cloth and homemade shoes or boots. Where they pitched
the tune with a tunin'
fork, and sang through their noses with the fervor and
spirit of the faithful.
Some walked to church, and some hitched the horses to
the wagon, which
had boards placed across the wagon box for seats. The
ones considered "well
off" had buggies or surrys; others, rode horseback.
The women who rode
horseback, rode side-saddle. It was certainly not
ethical for a woman to
straddle a horse in those days.
Not everyone had horse stock to work their
crops. Mostly, it was done with "goose-neck" or
grubbing hoes. In the newly
cleared ground or "new-ground", as it was called, the
weeds and sprouts
would smother out the planted crops unless the farmer
kept them constantly
chopped out.
The old ash hopper, my grandfather told about,
always held a fascination for me. The top box of the
ash hopper was built
on the order of a pig trough. It was about thirty
inches long with both
ends closed and a small crack left in the bottom. The
bottom box was about
thirty-six inches wide and eighteen inches deep. The
whole was made of
rough lumber; of course, and the cracks in the lower
box was sealed with
pine pitch. It was held together with posts of oak or
hickory, crossed
in the middle and nailed securely to the boxes.
All the ashes from the stoves and fireplaces
were put in the top box. If there had been no rain,
then water had to be
poured in on the ashes. This was called "primin". The
water that dropped
through into the lower box was lye water and used for
washing clothes,
making homemade lye soap, and making hominy.
Most families had a big black iron pot. When
hogs were butchered, all the fat trimmings were put in
the black pot. A
slow fire was built under it to prevent scorching. A
large wooden paddle
was used for stirring until the fat was boiled out of
the cracklings. These
were skimmed off, and the lard was taken out of the
kettle and put in jars
for future use. They put the cracklings, along with
the other meat scraps,
back in the pot, put a fire and a lot of lye water
under it. The mixture
was boiled hard until the cracklings were eaten up.
After cooling overnight,
the soap was sliced into bars. The soap was always
yellow.
Old timers made hominy by boiling corn in
water, into which an amount of lye water was poured. I
never found out
how much lye was used. This was boiled until the lye
had eaten the husks
from the corn. It was then removed and the kernels
were washed through
many waters until all traces of the lye water were
gone. The kernels of
corn would be almost twice their normal size. Nearly
all families made
a batch or two of hominy.
Schools were few and far between and in some
places there were none at all. It didn't take a lot of
book learning to
make a living in those days, but it did take a lot of
plain old common
sense, a strong body, and a reliance on the Almighty
for the courage to
believe in ones self in order to overcome the rigors
of a hard life.
After thoroughly reviewing the way my forefathers
lived, and the hard times they endured, it's easy for
me to see that actually,
they were so much better off than the present
generation. Back in those
days, no one was in debt. There was nothing to go in
debt for. Most of
what was needed, was fashioned from the materials at
hand. The little furniture
they had was hand-made. An old wood-burning cook
stove, a few pots, and
pans of cast iron, and molded in the roughest form,
was about all the furnishings
needed. These were the days of make-do. If what our
pioneer kinfolks wanted
was not available, they made do with what they had,
and did not complain.
(Having been born some sixty years ago, and
being privileged to spend a part of my youth living
with my grandparents
on a mountain farm, I would certainly concur with the
following article,
taken in part from an old faded and torn publication,
on which, even the
author's name was not legible, and in which I have had
to make many additions
and deletions.)
Reflecting back on how I have lived in the
heat and dirt and smoke of the man-made towns and
cities, I am ready to
scream. I have heard the screeching of horns,
whistles, and sirens, and
the braying of jackass politicians until I want to go
back to the old-time
way and hear the bray of a real simon-pure jackass.
The change would be
music to my ears. Here, the land is all covered with
bricks and concrete,
and the hearts of many of the people are as hard and
flinty as the sidewalks.
"I would like to help grandma fill the lamps
with oil or "ile" carried from a country store in a
can with an "irish
tater" stuck in the spout, and watch her trim the
wicks so the lamps would
glow more evenly. I want to eat some food cooked on an
old "step-stove",
sweet "taters" baked in an oven on the hearth over
hickory and red-oak
coals. It would be a welcome sight to see some of the
womenfolks swing
the fly brush to keep the pesky devils offen' the
table. Right here, it
might be said that a family rated according to the
kind of fly brush it
had. The very poor used a limb, cut from a mulberry
tree, and the middle
class had one cut out of newspapers, and the upper
crust had one made of
peafowl's tail. That family rated, and rated high,
brother!
"I want to go back where all the common,
everyday towels were made of salt sacks, and where
there was only one "store"
towel which was put out only when the preacher came. I
want to see the
man of the house take his tableknife of chilled steel
and whet it on the
tines of his fork before he carved the sow-belly that
had been cooked with
the beans. Did you ever eat any lye hominy or shuck
beans? If not, you
have never really lived...you have merely existed!
"Oh, to return once more to the days when
they made real country sausage and souse meat! Where
grandpa and grandma
smoked their long-stemmed clay pipes and would light
them by dipping a
live coal from the old fireplace.
"I want to see the housewife reach into the
salt gourd and get a pinch or two or salt to season
the beans and taters,
which were usually cooked by hanging on a hook in the
fireplace to conserve
stove wood. And who has not seen the home-made soap in
the terrapin's shell
soap dish on the wash bench just outside the door?
"Let's go into the "big house" and sit by
the fire and see the old-fashioned dog-irons and the
wrought iron shovel
and tongs made in the country blacksmith shop. Did you
ever see your granddaddy
heat the old shovel on a bitter, cold day and hold it
in front of the old
clock to thaw out the oil in the old timepiece so it
could go on tickin'
off the hours?
"The parlor was the sacred place. It was
there that all the sparkin' was done. There was the
bed when company came...a
fat straw tick and a big feather bed and a bolster or
pillows. For the
poor, there were no parlors. The houses were usually
about three rooms.
In the main room, was the fireplace. It was here that
all the family congregated
for warmth and family chatter. The head of the
household and his spouse
had their bed by the fire. The rest of the family
slept in the third room.
When company was visiting, they usually slept in the
room with the rest
of the family, or wherever there happened to be a
vacancy.
"On the "center-table", or in some other
safe place, was where the family album was kept. It
held the pictures of
the family dating back many years. The folks would
usually pose with one
hand on their knee and the other folded placidly
across the stomach. I
want to go back to the time when all the shoe boxes
were saved to make
splits for the women's bonnets. Remember 'em?
"I would like to go back and carry a few
lap-links in my pocket, just in case the hoss busts a
trace chain. I want
to tie the rawhide ham-string once more and adjust the
back-band til it
is just behind the hoss's withers. I want to tie my
shoes again with laces
made of groundhog hide.
"I want to spend Christmas in the old way
once more and get from the Christmas tree, one stick
of candy, one orange,
and one penny pencil. The rich ones gave their
children a French harp and
the "night" was filled with music and the cares that
infested the day folded
their tents like Arabs, and silently stole away.
"I want to go back where the ducks and geese
are picked every month; where corn and taters are
planted, and soap is
made by the signs of the moon; where "warnits" and
hickory nuts are gathered
in the fall for the winter mast; where the folks still
dig roots and herbs
to buy their winter boots and shoes; and where these
same boots and shoes
are greased with sheep or beef taller; where the
peggin' awl is still in
use; where Arbuckles coffee is parched in the stove
and ground in a mill
held in grandpa's lap; where some of the menfolk tied
the brooms with home-grown
broomcorn; where they make popguns out of elders and
shoot paper wads in
them.
"Yes, I want to go back where they drink
sassafras tea in the spring-time to thin their blood;
where they churn
with the old up and down churn-dasher; where they turn
the churn of cream
around as it sits by the fireplace in the big house,
so it will get in
the right form for churning; where goose quill
toothpicks are still in
use; where they still boil the clothes and use bluin';
where they refill
the straw ticks right after thrashin' time and where
they wear long flannel
drawers.
"Yes, I want to go back to the country and
get my fill of cracklin' bread. I want to see the
people eat again and
shovel it in with their knives. I want to go to the
neighbors to borrow
the gimlet. I want to go back where they eat three
meals a day...breakfast,
dinner and supper...and the word "lunch" will never be
heard again.
"I would like to once more watch apple-butter
being made in those huge old, brass kettles, where the
long handled stiring
wooden ladle never stopped, and that bubbling pot of
apple-butter gave
off an aroma that I haven't smelled since, nor can it
be expressed in words
on paper.
"Yes, I want to go back and make another
corn-shucker out of locust. I want to strip some cane
and top it and dip
the skimmin's offen' the bilin' molasses. I want to go
to the neighbors
for a bushel of seed corn, or shell a 'turn' of corn
and take it to the
mill for bread and watch as the miller measured out
his toll for the grinding.
I'd like to call a few doodlebugs outen' their holes,
but I want to avoid
the spanish needles, the cuckleburrs, and the chiggers
that make life unbearable,
and to avoid stone bruises forever.
"I doubt if I could measure up to the hardy
souls that were my forefathers. They lived by their
strength, by the work
of their hands and the sweat of their brow, by the
faith they had in themselves.
Theirs was a hard life, but it was honest. It was all
they knew and they
were happy in their way of life and helped themselves
by helping others.
"I feel sad that they children of today's
modern society are cheated by missing the things that
in those days made
families realize they had to work together to live,
and in doing so, were
kept in a mutual band of friendship.
"It doesn't seem possible in a span of 50
or more years that life has gone from ways of
simplicity to what some of
us consider utter confusion. People can't or won't
take time to enjoy the
natural things.
"We're living too fast. Modern society has
filled us with tension, and unrest. Respect for the
things we once held
dear and made life worth while a few years ago are
gone.
"And as our beloved forefathers rest and
meditate in their eternal dreams, on the gentle slopes
where once they
erected their humble homes. We recall and reminisce
about the ways and
traditions of the past, realizing with a tear of
sadness that we can't
go back or live any of those happy times again.
Historical Sketches of Southwest Virginia,
published by the Historical Society of Southwest
Virginia, Publication
12, 1978
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