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It is not given to many human beings to live in such completeness of union that two hearts really beat as one - but Bay City has had a beautiful example of such an one-ness in the lives of Dr. and Mrs. J. E. Simons, whose deaths came within just a few moments of each other, Sunday, June 30, 1935.
Being a most jovial and social young man, a handsome young doctor, his services were much sought after in other places than in the sick room and we find him one evening in a very fashionable party in aristocratic Matagorda, entertaining one group, then another of young people till he met the fascinating Annie Elizabeth Duffy - and after that time, all of his social plans and activities were centered around her. He kept the grass well worn on the trail between Caney and Matagorda till early the following year Bay City came into being - a fine new court house was built and Bay City's first gesture as a social center was the formal opening of the county capitol in a grand ball, such as was popular in the "gay 90's".
In looking through her "treasure chest" (a possession of every girl) the printed program of this dance was found and "Annie Duffy's" card was almost completely filled by three initials: "J. E. S." which was very conclusive evidence of mutual attraction, each to the other. They were married in 1897, and Dr. Simons took his charming bride to their first home down on "Caney," where they lived for a short time, but before the new year, they decided to make a permanent home in the young but important county capitol. Over muddy roads they traveled to move their household effects to Bay City, where they had selected a plat of ground for their home and they built there.
In church life, they were always leaders, being members of the Presbyterian Church did not keep them from taking a prominent part in any and all religious activities. There was never a question in the minds of the citizenry as to where Dr. and Mrs. Simons stood on any subject. They were bold, courageous and initiative in their manner of culture and of life, as they saw it. In the rounds of his professional life Dr. Simons found unlimited opportunity for leadership in every moral issue which arose. During the years together they read - studied - and discussed their work, and lived lives of such harmony that to think of them apart would be to do them an injustice. In the home, the mother was the "queen" - but the father was her king - their three children living and growing in such an atmosphere that made for them well rounded out home makers, themselves. The father and mother have lived - and their lives will be reflected in the lives they built to follow after them. Dr. Simons was by nature - and by election - a "doctor." His manner of life was "healing", and we thought as we watched the hundreds who passed their bier looking for the last time upon the faces of the man and woman who had nursed them to health from perhaps death's door - "these are they whom they served" - and the tears that blinded the eyes of these men, women and children were tears of real sorrow - real friendship, and real gratitude. The colored man was there - the old black mammy - they mingled their tears with the friends of wealth and position.
Their daughter, Madelene Shelby Simons Beckenbach, wrote a more personal account of their death:
My mother and father last visited us in Houston on Friday, June 28th 1935. They came over spending the day and returned to Bay City the same day. The next day, Saturday, June 29th, Ed and I went to Bay City to visit my folks for the weekend. We got into Bay city about 5 PM, went directly to my father's office, which was in the southeast corner of the Matagorda Pharmacy building, to get a typhoid serum inoculation. The morning of the 30th of June 1935 my father went to his office and was to return at 11 AM to accompany my mother, my husband and myself to the little white frame Presbyterian Church which our family had attended a great number of years. My father returned about 10:30 AM complaining of a pain in his chest from which he could get no relief. My mother put him to bed and immediately started trying to ease him. He ate no lunch but did not get entirely relieved until my brother Dr. B. E. Simons came in and gave him some medicine. He went off to sleep and awakened about 3 PM feeling much better. He wished to go for a drive so after he drank a cup of coffee, my mother, my father, my husband and I started out for a drive. When we asked where to go, Daddy wanted to go out to old Bucks Bayou Road and on down through Chances Prairie meeting the Caney Road at Cedar Lane. This territory was where my father first practiced medicine and where my father and my mother spent their first happy year together, he pointed out to us some of the first old settlers homes as well as an old gate he had driven horse and buggies through on his trips from Caney to Matagorda to visit my mother before they were married. We turned back to town at Cedar Lane and about ten miles out of Bay City without uttering any sound of pain or distress, my dear, precious Daddy went to sleep for a long quiet rest from this world in which he enjoyed living. My brave, heroic mother was stunned beyond words, she held my father's head into Bay city but when she was relieved of the actual weight of his head, she collapsed and even though my poor, grieving, yet faithful brother worked with her for twenty or thirty minutes, she never rallied from the first shock. My Daddy left us about 15 minutes to six, June 30th 1935 and my mother about 6:20 PM the same day. My father was 65 years, 4 months, 21 days of age, my mother 58 years 14 days. They were buried July 1, 1935 in Cedarvale Cemetery, Bay City Texas.
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SCORES OF FRIENDS FORM GATHERING TO PAY LAST SAD TRIBUTE TO DR. SIMONS AND WIFE. A large assemblage of people gathered at the Methodist Church Monday afternoon to witness and hear the funeral ceremonies as conducted by Rev. Ernest F. Deutsch, pastor of the Presbyterian Church for two of his members, Dr. and Mrs. J. E. Simons, who died late Sunday afternoon not over an hour apart. Perhaps not in the memory of one person in all that huge throng of sorrowing friends could there be found one who had ever been called upon to attend such an unusual funeral ceremony. As the two caskets banked high with beautiful flowers were arranged, side by side before the altar the deep and sacred solemnity of the occasion impressed all deeply as they realized it was the only ceremony of the kind they had ever known. The procession was made up of hundreds of loyal friends, neighbors, church associates and others who esteemed them in life and grieved with the sons and daughter at the hour of death. The active pallbearers were Paris Smith, Dr. S. R. Sholars, W. R. Horn, Jr., Luther Robertson, H. G. Gilmore, R. E. Baker, Roy Shoultz, Hamilton Savage, J. W. Ingram, F. E. Dye, Roy Starling and Stanley Cernosek. The honorary pallbearers were Hy. Rugeley, Pat Thompson, Smith Johnson, E. B. Reddock, Sr., B. F. Powell, G. C. Musch, H. H. Parker, J. R. Gusman, Bert Carr, Judge E. N. Krause, M. C. Jaynes of Marshall, Dr. M. D. Levy of Houston, Dr. Lyle J. Loage of Houston, Dr. J. M. Robison of Houston, Dr. C. M. Griswold of Houston, Dr. G. T. Storey, Rev. Odis Rainer, H. A. Blaylock, Wm. Cash, Joe Birkner, P. G. Huston, G. P. Hardy, R. A. Kleska, T. B. Smith, Markham; Walter Brown, Ashwood; Harris Milner, Jack Hinton, G. P. Hathaway, Clemville and G. M. Curtis.
Matagorda County Tribune,
July 4, 1935 |
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Photos and articles courtesy of Sonya Beckenbach Manderson, R. E. & Gayle Simons and Matagorda County Museum. |
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Children of James E. & Annie E. Duffy Simons |
Copyright 2006 -
Present by the Simons Family |
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Created Nov. 12, 2006 |
Updated Jan. 25, 2008 |